does tms work for depression — what the trials actually show
two antidepressants in, maybe three, and someone says the word tms. the clinic website says seventy percent of patients respond. your prescriber says it's worth a look. nobody hands you the trials.
here they are. what the largest comparison ever run actually found, why the number on the brochure is not the number in the trials, what the new accelerated protocols have and have not shown, who profits from the most exciting one, and who tms has not been shown to help.
what tms is, in one paragraph
transcranial magnetic stimulation is a non-invasive treatment[9]: a coil held against the head delivers magnetic pulses to a region of the brain, usually the left dorsolateral prefrontal cortex. the standard protocol is one session a day, five days a week, over several weeks. the two main forms are high-frequency rtms and intermittent theta burst stimulation, which delivers more pulses in less time[11]. the “accelerated” protocols you may have read about pack many sessions into a few days[10],[11].
the biggest comparison: 113 trials, 6,750 people
in 2019 the bmj published a network meta-analysis of every randomised trial of non-surgical brain stimulation for a major depressive episode: 113 trials, 262 treatment arms, 6,750 adults with major depressive disorder or bipolar depression[1]. ten of the eighteen treatment strategies beat sham on response. the ones you will be offered were among them. high-frequency left rtms had an odds ratio of 3.17 against sham (95% confidence interval 2.29 to 4.37). intermittent theta burst was 3.20 (1.45 to 7.08). bilateral rtms was 4.92 (2.93 to 8.25)[1].
an odds ratio of about three means the odds of responding were roughly three times those on sham. odds are not the same as a share of people, and the paper reports odds, so that is what this page reports. every strategy was at least as acceptable as sham, meaning people were no more likely to drop out[1].
why the clinic number is not the trial number
there is no single tms success rate, and the trials do not report one. they report odds against sham. where response rates were actually tabulated, in the systematic review of trials in older adults, they ranged from 6.7% to 54.3% across trials, with large differences in dose and protocol[8]. a 2026 network meta-analysis of 141 randomised trials described the effect sizes as modest, with confidence intervals that overlapped across most comparisons[2].
the high percentages you see on clinic websites tend to come from studies with no sham arm. that is not a sneer at clinics; it is how the literature is shaped. in adolescents, for example, the pooled response figure of about 41% comes mainly from uncontrolled studies, while the only large sham-controlled trial found no benefit over sham[9]. a sham arm is the difference between measuring the treatment and measuring the experience of being treated.
one more thing the trials say about quality. of the 141 studies in that 2026 network, 87 were rated high risk of bias, 51 had some concerns, and only three were low risk. most of the rankings were graded low or very low confidence, and the authors ask for head-to-head trials to confirm them[2]. the evidence that tms beats sham is solid. the evidence about which protocol is best is not.
how many tms sessions does it take? the dose question
added 12 november 2026: a dose-response meta-analysis in bmc medicine pooled 108 sham-controlled trials of rtms for depression, 134 active arms and 5,621 adults, and asked how the benefit over sham changes with the dose[15]. for the short-term result, the benefit rose and then flattened. the highest predicted benefit came at about 30,000 to 39,000 pulses in total, 1,800 to 2,200 pulses a session, 14 to 16 sessions and 2.7 to 3.1 weeks of treatment, with little extra benefit from more[15]. at follow-up, more than a week after treatment ended, the links to dose were smaller and mostly straight lines rather than curves, with the best estimates at 26,000 to 33,000 pulses and 10 to 14 sessions[15].
what it does not tell you is just as important. each part of the dose was modelled on its own, even though pulses, sessions and weeks rise together, and the figures describe the average across groups within the doses the trials used[15]. the authors say plainly that these are reference points, not a dosing rule for any one person and not a single best protocol, and that lasting benefit may depend more on a maintenance plan than on a bigger dose[15]. it cannot say whether the 90,000 pulse accelerated course below is better or worse than a standard one; that needs head-to-head trials. a question it does make reasonable: if a clinic proposes far more sessions than the trials found useful, ask what the extra is expected to add.
theta burst and the accelerated protocols
theta burst is the form most likely to be offered now, because it is faster. a 2024 network meta-analysis of 23 randomised trials in 960 people found intermittent theta burst to the left prefrontal cortex beat sham on response and on remission, and a combined left-and-right protocol did too[3]. on safety it found no difference from sham in dropouts, in headache or discomfort at the site, or in switches to mania[3]. the 2026 network gave theta burst the highest probability of being the most effective modality, especially in treatment-resistant depression, with the same overlapping-intervals caveat[2].
“accelerated” means more sessions in fewer days. a meta-analysis of four randomised and ten before-and-after studies found accelerated tms improved symptoms quickly but was not significantly more effective than standard tms (standardised mean difference −0.67, 95% confidence interval −1.62 to 0.27)[10]. there was a hint that symptoms kept improving after the accelerated course ended, which the authors say needs longer follow-up to confirm[10]. faster, then. not clearly better.
the stanford protocol, and who profits from it
the protocol you have most likely heard about is stanford neuromodulation therapy, saint or snt: a high-dose intermittent theta burst course of ten sessions a day for five consecutive days, about 90,000 pulses, to the left dorsolateral prefrontal cortex[5]. the replication trial, published in 2026, randomised 48 people with treatment-resistant depression to active or sham. at one month, 50.0% of the active group were in remission versus 20.8% on sham; response was 54.2% versus 25.0%[4]. the fda cleared a device built around the protocol in september 2022, through the 510(k) route, which establishes that a device is substantially equivalent to one already on the market rather than judging how many people respond[6].
the clearance letter is worth reading, because the regulator wrote its own caveats into it. the clinical data came from 70 patients in four trials, one of them randomised and sham-controlled with 29 people, the other three open-label, all “conducted in close geographical proximity”, so “generalizability to the broader United States population has not been evaluated”. effectiveness was measured at four weeks and “has not been established beyond the timepoints evaluated”. and only 19 of the 29 people in the sham-controlled trial completed the check on whether they could tell which arm they were in, so “uncertainty remains as to the adequacy of the blinding for the remainder”[6]. the same record shows why the protocol is called accelerated: 1,800 pulses a session, ten sessions a day, 90,000 pulses in five days, against the predicate device's 600 a session, once a day, 18,000 over six weeks[6].
who tms has not been shown to help
teenagers. the 2022 review found only two randomised trials in adolescents. the only large sham-controlled one found tms no more effective than sham, and the encouraging pooled figures come mainly from uncontrolled studies[9]. added 27 october 2026: a trial of 61 adolescents in china, published in july 2026, found lower depression scores (cohen's d 0.71) and lower suicidal-ideation scores (d 0.67) than sham after ten daily sessions of high-dose theta burst, with the gap still there at one month; anxiety scores did not differ[12]. it was single-blind, single-site and registered after it started, so it is one trial pointing the other way, not yet replicated.
people whose depression comes with insomnia. added 28 october 2026: a meta-analysis of seven randomised trials in 709 people (367 given high-frequency rtms to the left prefrontal cortex, 342 in the comparison groups) found better sleep quality scores (standardised mean difference 0.97, 95% confidence interval 0.23 to 1.71) and lower depression scores (0.61, 0.38 to 0.84) than the comparison groups, with no significant difference in adverse reactions (risk ratio 1.09, 0.80 to 1.48). sleep latency did not reach significance (0.50, from negative 0.17 to 1.18)[13]. the limits are large: heterogeneity for the sleep scores was 91%, the authors rate the certainty as very low to low, and they call the findings exploratory and in need of confirmation by higher quality trials[13]. a pooled signal in this group, not a settled answer.
people starting tms and a new antidepressant at the same time. added 3 november 2026: a double-blind trial in prague randomised 60 people with major depression who were all starting an ssri to one of three arms of 20 sessions: rtms over the dorsomedial prefrontal cortex, standard high-frequency rtms over the left prefrontal cortex, or sham. at six weeks depression scores had fallen in every arm (by 14.3, 8.2 and 12.6 points on the madrs), and no active arm beat sham. remission was 20%, 15% and 45%, with sham numerically highest, and 45% of the dorsomedial arm dropped out[14]. the authors call it exploratory: too small to detect what rtms adds on top of a new ssri, with a high sham response and uneven dropout[14]. one small trial pointing the other way from the pooled networks above, not yet replicated, and it says nothing about people whose depression has already not responded to medication.
older adults. seven randomised trials, 260 people in total, plus seven uncontrolled ones. response ranged from 6.7% to 54.3%, and the review's own conclusion is that efficacy in older adults is still unclear, with dose and protocol varying so much between trials that they are hard to add up[8].
does the brand of machine matter
it does not appear to. across 31 randomised sham-controlled trials of high-frequency rtms, a meta-analysis found no significant differences in response, remission, or dropout among the three commercially available devices it compared[7]. with the caveat that no trial randomised people between machines; this is a subgroup analysis of trials designed to test rtms, not the devices[7].
what to ask before you sign up
these are questions, not advice. they are the ones the trials make it reasonable to ask.
- which protocol, exactly: standard high-frequency, theta burst, or accelerated, and how many sessions over how many days?
- the response and remission rates you quote: are they from sham-controlled trials, or from your own patients without a sham comparison?
- what counts as treatment-resistant for coverage, and how many prior medications do i need to have tried?
- what happens at three and six months, and is there a maintenance plan? the accelerated data on that is thin[10].
- given my age, is there trial evidence for people like me, or is this extrapolated from younger adults?[8],[9]
- if tms does not work, what is the next step, and was ect discussed?[1]
this is not medical advice. it is a summary of published research, it is not a diagnosis, and it is not a recommendation for or against any treatment — nobody here has met you. decisions about starting, changing or stopping a medication belong to you and a prescriber who knows your history. do not change a prescribed medication on the strength of a web page, this one included.
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sources
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[1] Mutz J, Vipulananthan V, Carter B, Hurlemann R, Fu CHY, Young AH. Comparative efficacy and acceptability of non-surgical brain stimulation for the acute treatment of major depressive episodes in adults: systematic review and network meta-analysis. BMJ, 2019. doi:10.1136/bmj.l1079. PMID 30917990.
systematic review with pairwise and network meta-analysis of 113 randomised trials (262 treatment arms) · n = 6,750 · evidence tier: strong · funding: academic; ICMJE disclosure forms completed, no industry funding stated in the record · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: 83% of trials (94 of 113) were at low or unclear risk of bias and the precision of the estimates varied considerably; the newer protocols were understudied relative to high-frequency left rTMS and tDCS.
[2] Zhang Y, Meng J, Liu X, Tang H, Zhong D, Li Y. Repetitive Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation for Major Depressive Disorder: A Systematic Review and Network Meta-Analysis. Journal of Evidence-Based Medicine, 2026. doi:10.1111/jebm.70155. PMID 42383744.
systematic review and network meta-analysis of randomised trials comparing rTMS modalities, searched to October 2025 · n = 10,587 · evidence tier: moderate · funding: unknown · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: of 141 studies, 87 were rated high risk of bias and only three low; confidence intervals overlapped across most comparisons, effect sizes were modest, and most rankings were graded low or very low confidence. the authors call for head-to-head trials to confirm them.
[3] Kishi T, Ikuta T, Sakuma K, Hatano M, Matsuda Y, Wilkening J. Theta burst stimulation for depression: a systematic review and network and pairwise meta-analysis. Molecular Psychiatry, 2024. doi:10.1038/s41380-024-02630-5. PMID 38844532.
systematic review and network meta-analysis of 23 randomised trials of theta burst protocols · n = 960 · evidence tier: strong · funding: none declared (all authors state no conflicts of interest) · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: small trials pooled across six protocols that differ in target and dose; about 70% of trials enrolled people with major depressive disorder only, the rest mixed diagnoses.
[4] Kratter IH, Austelle CW, Lissemore JI, Wada M, Geoly A, Chaiken A. Stanford neuromodulation therapy for treatment-resistant depression: a randomized controlled trial confirming efficacy, and an EEG study providing insight into mechanism of action and a potentially predictive biomarker of efficacy. World Psychiatry, 2026. doi:10.1002/wps.70032. PMID 41536095.
double-blind, sham-controlled randomised trial; the replication of the first SNT trial · n = 48 · evidence tier: early signal · funding: not stated in the abstract record; the companion mechanism paper (source 5) discloses the protocol inventor’s patents and equity · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: 48 people randomised (24 active, 24 sham) and the primary outcome was remission at one month. this is the second trial of the protocol, not the tenth; the authors themselves say replication in a larger sample was needed.
[5] Momi D, Buchanan DM, Wada M, Geoly AD, Johnson NJ, Cole EJ. Neurophysiological signatures of Stanford Neuromodulation Therapy in treatment resistant depression. Molecular Psychiatry, 2026. doi:10.1038/s41380-026-03837-4. PMID 42686996.
double-blind, sham-controlled randomised trial with TMS-EEG (a mechanism study) · n = 24 · evidence tier: early signal · funding: industry-linked: the record states the senior author holds patents for the SNT protocol and equity in Magnus Medical, which licensed the technology · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: 24 participants (12 active, 12 sham); designed to study mechanism, not to measure how many people respond.
[6] US Food and Drug Administration, Center for Devices and Radiological Health. 510(k) premarket notification K220177: Magnus Neuromodulation System (MNS) with SAINT Technology. FDA 510(k) clearance letter, 2022.
510(k) clearance letter dated 1 September 2022: substantial equivalence to the Nexstim NBT System 2 (K182700); clinical data from four trials, one randomised sham-controlled (29 people) and three open-label · n = 70 · evidence tier: moderate · funding: n/a (regulator; the trials it summarises were run by the protocol’s inventors) · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: the record’s own words: the data came from "a total of 70 patients enrolled in four clinical trials … conducted in close geographical proximity", so "generalizability to the broader United States population has not been evaluated"; effectiveness was assessed at four weeks and "has not been established beyond the timepoints evaluated"; and only 19 of 29 completed the blinding check, so "uncertainty remains as to the adequacy of the blinding for the remainder". a 510(k) establishes equivalence to an existing device, not how many people respond.
[7] Matsuda Y, Yamazaki R, Kishi T, Iwata N, Shigeta M, Kito S. Comparative Efficacy and Acceptability of 3 Repetitive Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation Devices for Depression: A Meta-Analysis of Randomized, Sham-Controlled Trials. Neuropsychobiology, 2022. doi:10.1159/000517859. PMID 34320488.
meta-analysis of 31 randomised sham-controlled trials of high-frequency rTMS, grouped by device · evidence tier: moderate · funding: unknown · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: a subgroup analysis of trials designed to test rTMS, not the devices; no trial randomised people between devices.
[8] Cappon D, den Boer T, Jordan C, Yu W, Metzger E, Pascual-Leone A. Transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) for geriatric depression. Ageing Research Reviews, 2022. doi:10.1016/j.arr.2021.101531. PMID 34839043.
systematic review of 7 randomised and 7 uncontrolled trials in older adults · n = 260 · evidence tier: moderate · funding: unknown · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: response ranged from 6.7% to 54.3% across trials, with large differences in dose and protocol; the authors describe efficacy in older adults as still unclear.
[9] Sigrist C, Vöckel J, MacMaster FP, Farzan F, Croarkin PE, Galletly C. Transcranial magnetic stimulation in the treatment of adolescent depression: a systematic review and meta-analysis of aggregated and individual-patient data from uncontrolled studies. European Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 2022. doi:10.1007/s00787-022-02021-7. PMID 35751003.
systematic review and meta-analysis of 10 studies in adolescents, only 2 of them randomised · evidence tier: early signal · funding: academic; the record states one author is supported by National Institute of Mental Health grants · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: the pooled effect comes mainly from uncontrolled studies; the only large randomised sham-controlled trial found TMS no more effective than sham.
[10] Shi R, Wang Z, Yang D, Hu Y, Zhang Z, Lan D. Short-term and long-term efficacy of accelerated transcranial magnetic stimulation for depression: a systematic review and meta-analysis. BMC Psychiatry, 2024. doi:10.1186/s12888-024-05545-1. PMID 38326789.
systematic review and meta-analysis of 4 randomised and 10 before-and-after studies of accelerated TMS; PROSPERO-registered · evidence tier: moderate · funding: none declared · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: only four randomised trials; the comparison with standard TMS did not reach significance and follow-up was short, so the maintenance signal is provisional.
[11] Lefaucheur JP, Colzi C, Hollander E, Pampaloni I, Van Ameringen M, Baeken C. Comparison between accelerated and standard or sham rTMS in the treatment of depression: A systematic review. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 2025. doi:10.1016/j.neubiorev.2025.106140. PMID 40252882.
systematic review of 23 studies comparing accelerated with standard or sham rTMS · evidence tier: moderate · funding: unknown · accessed September 14, 2026
the catch: a descriptive review with no pooled estimate; cited here for how the standard and accelerated protocols are defined.
[12] Yang Y, Ye Q, Peng Z, Cai W, Wen J, Zhang J, Lan Y. Rapid and robust effects of high-dose intermittent Transcranial Brain Stimulation (iTBS) on depression and suicidal ideation in adolescents with acute major depression: a 10-day randomised, controlled, single-blind trial. BMC Psychiatry, 2026. doi:10.1186/s12888-026-08452-9. PMID 42928194.
randomised, sham-controlled, single-blind trial of 10 daily sessions of high-dose iTBS to the left DLPFC in adolescents with acute major depression, outcomes at 2 and 6 weeks; ChiCTR2500101152 · n = 61 · evidence tier: early signal · funding: unknown; the authors declare no competing interests · accessed October 27, 2026
the catch: one single-site trial of 61 people, single-blind (patients only), retrospectively registered, follow-up of one month; anxiety scores did not differ from sham. not yet replicated.
[13] Yang W, Chen S, Li X, Chen J, Li L, Yu J. Efficacy of High-Frequency Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation Therapy for Depression With Insomnia Symptoms: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis Based on Randomized Controlled Trials. Brain and Behavior, 2026. doi:10.1002/brb3.71808. PMID 42947345.
systematic review and meta-analysis of 7 randomised trials (709 people) of left DLPFC-targeted high-frequency rTMS in depression with insomnia symptoms · n = 709 · evidence tier: moderate · funding: unknown · accessed October 28, 2026
the catch: read from the PubMed abstract. heterogeneity for sleep quality scores was 91%; the authors grade the evidence very low to low certainty and call the findings exploratory. sleep latency did not reach significance.
[14] Bares M, Klirova M, Hejzlar M, Biackova N, Brunovsky M, Kostylkova L, Novak T. Dorsomedial prefrontal cortex repetitive transcranial magnetic stimulation combined with antidepressants in major depressive disorder: a randomized, double-blind, single-center, sham-controlled trial. BMC Psychiatry, 2026. doi:10.1186/s12888-026-08448-5. PMID 42968065.
randomised, double-blind, three-arm trial (DMPFC rTMS vs high-frequency left prefrontal rTMS vs sham, 20 sessions each) with an SSRI started at the same time in all arms; primary outcome MADRS change at six weeks; ISRCTN26184028 · n = 60 · evidence tier: early signal · funding: unknown; the authors declare no competing interests · accessed November 3, 2026
the catch: read from the PubMed abstract. one single-site trial of 60 people (20 per arm), retrospectively registered; no pairwise comparison was significant, sham response was high, and 45% of the DMPFC arm dropped out. the authors call it exploratory and underpowered. not yet replicated.
[15] Wang Z, Sheng R, Shi R, Zou Z, Steele VR, Yuan T, Guo X. Acute and long-term effects of repetitive transcranial magnetic stimulation in major depressive episodes: a systematic review and dose-response meta-analysis of randomized sham-controlled trials. BMC Medicine, 2026. doi:10.1186/s12916-026-05089-z. PMID 43000346.
systematic review and dose-response meta-analysis of 108 randomised sham-controlled trials (134 active arms) of rTMS in adults with a major depressive episode; restricted cubic spline models fitted to each dosing dimension separately · n = 5,621 · evidence tier: moderate · funding: unknown; the authors declare no competing interests · accessed November 12, 2026
the catch: read from the PubMed abstract. each dosing dimension (total pulses, pulses per session, sessions, weeks) was modelled on its own, so the plateaus are not independent of each other, and they describe the group average within the doses trials actually used. the authors say the figures are reference points, not a dosing rule or a single best protocol.
questions
Does TMS actually work for depression?
In the largest comparison of brain-stimulation trials, a network meta-analysis of 113 randomised trials in 6,750 people, ten of the eighteen treatment strategies beat sham, and the common TMS protocols were among them: high-frequency left rTMS had roughly three times the odds of response versus sham (odds ratio 3.17), and intermittent theta burst about the same (3.20). So yes, better than sham. The caveats are real: 83% of those trials were at low or unclear risk of bias, and the newer protocols were understudied.
What is the TMS success rate?
There is no single number, and be wary of anyone who gives you one. The trials report odds ratios against sham, not a percentage of people cured. Where response rates were tabulated, as in the review of trials in older adults, they ranged from 6.7% to 54.3% depending on the trial and the dose. A 2026 network meta-analysis called the effect sizes modest with overlapping confidence intervals. The high percentages on clinic websites usually come from studies without a sham arm, which produce bigger numbers than trials that have one.
Is TMS better than ECT?
No. In the same 113-trial network, bitemporal ECT (odds ratio 8.91) and high-dose right unilateral ECT (7.27) had the highest odds of response and were the treatments that beat other active treatments head-to-head. TMS is non-invasive and, in the trials, at least as acceptable as sham; ECT is the more effective of the two. Which is right for a given person is a clinical decision this page cannot make.
How long does TMS treatment take?
The standard protocol is one session a day, five days a week, over several weeks. Accelerated protocols deliver more sessions in fewer days: the Stanford protocol gives ten sessions a day for five consecutive days. A meta-analysis of four randomised and ten before-and-after studies found accelerated TMS worked faster but was not significantly more effective than standard TMS.
How many TMS sessions do you need?
There is no individual answer, but a 2026 dose-response meta-analysis of 108 sham-controlled trials (5,621 adults) found that the short-term benefit over sham flattened at around 14 to 16 sessions, 30,000 to 39,000 pulses in total and about three weeks, with little extra benefit beyond that. At follow-up the best estimates were around 10 to 14 sessions. Each part of the dose was modelled separately and the figures are group averages, which the authors say are reference points, not a dosing rule.
What is SAINT or Stanford Neuromodulation Therapy, and is it FDA-approved?
A high-dose intermittent theta burst protocol: 1,800 pulses a session, ten sessions a day for five days, 90,000 pulses in total to the left dorsolateral prefrontal cortex. The replication trial randomised 48 people and found remission at one month in 50.0% on active treatment versus 20.8% on sham. The FDA cleared the device in September 2022 through the 510(k) route, which establishes equivalence to an existing device rather than judging how many people respond; the clearance letter itself says the data came from 70 patients in four single-site trials, that effectiveness was assessed at four weeks and not established beyond that, and that generalisability to the wider US population has not been evaluated. Two things to hold at once: those are striking numbers, and they come from small trials run by the group that invented the protocol, whose senior author holds patents on it and equity in the company that licensed it. That is disclosed in their own paper. It is early evidence, not a settled answer.
Does TMS work for teenagers?
It has not been shown to. The 2022 review found only two randomised trials in adolescents, and the only large sham-controlled one found TMS no more effective than sham; the encouraging pooled response figure comes mainly from studies with no sham arm. Since then, one 2026 trial of 61 adolescents found lower depression and suicidal-ideation scores than sham after ten days of high-dose theta burst, lasting to one month, with no difference on anxiety. It was small, single-blind and registered after the fact, so it is one signal, not yet replicated.
What are the side effects of TMS?
In the trial-level data this page cites: across 113 trials every stimulation strategy was at least as acceptable as sham, and in 23 randomised trials of theta burst there was no excess of headache or discomfort at the site, no more dropouts, and no more switches to mania than on sham. For the accelerated Stanford protocol specifically, the FDA clearance record lists what the 14 people in the active arm reported: headache 57%, fatigue 57%, back or neck pain 50%, pain or discomfort at the treatment site 36%, anxiety or agitation 29%, and no serious adverse events; fatigue was the same in the active and sham groups, which the record attributes to the hours spent in the clinic. Rarer risks are on the device labelling and belong in the conversation with whoever would treat you.
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