When I was very little (around 3 to 4) I used to get turned on by cartoons with episodes involving body swapping, then a cousin of mine (like a year younger) helped me put on a dress belonging to an older cousin, I remember being very turned on by that at the moment. It has never happened again and those things have never turned me on again, I'm now a 23 year old male, I'm a virgin and never even been on a relationship

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• the person who asked·3 years ago

  But I'm interested in women, I like women and when I masturbate I do it to straight material, while sometimes I have tried gay material I really can't get enjoyment out of it, I can't see myself being with men, however I'm confused with what happened when I was a kid, I really don't know the right terms and I don't want to offend anyone but do those things I mentioned imply I could be LGBTQ+ or is it something else?

• someone who replied·3 years ago

  There is a thrill to many people. To play on the forbidden side. It’s a natural thing to experiment with and doesn’t really have any indication of who you are or what you define as what you like. Only you can do that. Black and white relationship or identity thinking is a gross oversimplification of what ppl are attracted to and experience. Unfortunately I think today it’s become overly simplified and ppl think that being on this side of the line

• someone who replied, again·3 years ago

  Or that will make their life easier and better. The reality is that these definitions or identities don’t actually change you or your situation. They are labels humans use to describe behavior but won’t solve anything for you. You still need to wade through your emotions And explore your feelings and attractions either way regardless of the label. Don’t get too caught up in defining yourself. Words never can capture the complexity of humans