so overwhelmed. everyone just beats on me all the time and I get like nothing in return
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- someone who replied
I’m sorry. The world is a vampire sometimes. But, remember your strength is in the light and vampires dont like light. Your talents and the small things you enjoy will get you through this.
- the person who asked
its just lonely. how do I share what I’m going through without always being a constant burden on other people
- someone who replied, again
Sometimes it’s our perception that makes us feel like a burden. It’s no doubt that others actions can make us feel this way too, but try to take it with a grain of salt
- someone who replied
OP, something that can be helpful is to also offer to listen. Share what is going on in your life, then give others a chance to share. Could be in person, could be on a platform like this one. You can also help others, simply by listening. It's not simply about making you feel better about reaching; it's about really supporring others, and allowing yourself to get support
- the person who asked
Thank you! Yeah. I can be more open about how I’m feeling.
- the person who asked
I suppose I’m harder on myself than is necessary. It’s a defense mechanism o use to toughen myself because I’m used to the attacks. So I attack myself as practice or to make me feel better because I’m doing the attacking. Even if it’s at myself
