sense of self & belonging
How do you become more positive and confident about yourself if your used to ignoring what's in the mirror because you just get ready and go do the daily grind. Like you feel self conscious about yourself but not enough to worry about it because you have other things to do that seem more important.
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- someone who replied
What’s more important that you and how you feel or how it feels to be you?
- the person who asked
Ok please reword that. I feel like I'm playing a riddle
- someone who replied, again
lol yes that was unclear. What is more important than how it feels to be you?
- the person who asked
Everything else usually feels more important. Guess I would like to feel more alive and care free
- someone who replied, again
That’s a choice. Or an unconscious choice which I call patterns. You are choosing to put more value over those other people than yourself because that’s perhaps how you’ve done it for most of your life but that doesn’t mean you have to. You can change that or decide to put your weight elsewhere. What feels more important and how come?
