I’m not supposed to be on my phone past 8. But I usually go to bed @9due to strict parents. I go to bed past 3 most days. I’m usually on my phone. I feel my dad doesn’t like me bc I don’t have the same interests as him like my sister does. My step mom shows less love to me. As for my mom I only see her for 1.5 days. I don’t wanna live fulltimewith my mom, my dad won’t let me and I don’t want to not be around my baby sister and miss her grow up

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I’m not supposed to be on my phone past 8. But I usually go to bed  @9due to strict parents. I go to bed past 3 most days. I’m usually on my phone. I feel my dad doesn’t like me bc I don’t have the same interests as him like my sister does. My step mom shows less love to me. As for my mom I only see her for 1.5 days. I don’t wanna live fulltimewith my mom, my dad won’t let me and I don’t want to not be around my baby sister and miss her grow up

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Without me she is my best friend but I’m the runt in my family I’m really skinny (I eat) I can’t gain weight I try but I wanna be healthy unlike my 9 yr/o sister who weighs more than me and I’m 13. I’ve always liked my mom more I love my dad and step mom but my mom gives me more love. I never sleep I get it I’m GenZ but I want sleep

someone who replied · Answer

Thanks for sharing. Sounds like you’re going through some transition in your family. I bet it’s not that your dad doesn’t love you as much as your sister, maybe he just is better at expressing it to and around your sister because they are more a like. How much of these thoughts do you share with your mom and dad? Do you feel like they hear and respect you if/when you speak your mind?

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