stress & emotional wellbeing
Daily trauma of being shunned by the father of my daughter, work at the same place, he used to hold me close for hours and tell me meantime that not good enough, but I stayed and now he’s blaming me for being the problem and never talks to me but decided after a year and nine moths that he does want to be a dad, only he can’t stand me so without me, it broke me, he took all the good things away and left only hurt, I can’t cope with myself
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That sounds painful. I can see how you’d feel that way. And yes, it does sound like he took a lot from you and is put you in an awkward position of being a bigger person. He’s asking you to accommodate him and his immature decisions and you gain nothing by making it worse for him, but it may feel like you lose everything if you let go of the pain and let him back.idk what to say but you are stronger and more capable than you think
