I've been having concerns regarding my boyfriend’s vagueness about choosing a career or making any sort of concrete plans to move closer to where I live currently. For context, we've been together nearly 5 years and he's a few years younger than me. I'm contemplating seeing a counsellor or therapist to try and get an objective opinion and maybe work through that and other feelings about my relationship but I'm unsure what else I can do.

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I've been having concerns regarding my boyfriend’s vagueness about choosing a career or making any sort of concrete plans to move closer to where I live currently. For context, we've been together nearly 5 years and he's a few years younger than me.

I'm contemplating seeing a counsellor or therapist to try and get an objective opinion and maybe work through that and other feelings about my relationship but I'm unsure what else I can do.

someone · Answer

Sorry for the long post

someone who replied · Answer

No worries!  Honestly, where there is smoke there is usually fire. If you are picking up on that from him it’s worth exploring that Curiousity/hunch. Have you talked with him about this feeling or concern yet?

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