i made a mistake, long story short, i was supposed to go out in a club with this guy lets name him A but he said he is going out with friends and he is only here for 2 nights so both nights he is going with his friends, i got mad because we agreed to go one night together so i called my ex to go with me and he saw us and gor mad. but through our few month of situationship i was talking to other guy too and he said to remove him but i couldnt beca
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- the person who asked
because that other guy is suicidal and he will get in bad state every time i tell him we need to stop talking. i made a mistake for both of them because i shouldnt have give them both a hope, idk what to do i think guy A will never forgive me
- someone who replied
Tough situation. I’d apologize to both. Say the same thing you said here to each of them. Pick one you are willing to commit to if you want but don’t keep the other one around. And his mental health is not a reason to stay with him. That’s his situation. Not your responsibility
- the person who asked
i apologized but guy A hates me , he is going home tmrw and doesnt want to say goodbye and he said we will never see each other again, i just want him to forgive me
- the person who asked
how do you even get better from this, i will never forgive myself for this, this is going to haunt me all my life i dont know what to do, how do you just move on when you do something like this, pleass help me
- someone who replied, again
That’s hard. Time will tell if he forgives. You can ask, but that’s it. It’s his choice if he decides to. Learn from this feeling is all you can do. Remember how bad this hurts, use it for fuel to not do this again to someone.
