relationships & contentment
Ever since I ended things with this guy a week ago I feel so strange. Like never before. I’m getting along ok but I feel like a part of me loathes myself, because it was early on maybe, or maybe because I did it without absolute certainty it was the right thing. All I know is the relationship wasn’t going in a direction I wanted, and it was intended to nip that in the bud
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4 replies
- someone who replied
It sounds like you were looking out for yourself and trying to do what was right for you in that moment and there's nothing wrong with that. Maybe it wasn't the best time for things to end, but it felt right for you at the time. Don't knock yourself on that. You never know what would have happened if you continued things with him. You're doing the best that you can right now and that is what's important
- the person who asked
Thanks
- the person who asked
I think it’s a lack of closure, perhaps. At least I feel better than a couple days ago
- someone who replied
Glad you are feeling better. Sounds like you made the right decision! Breakups are hard. But you made the hard choice and it will be better for both of you in the long run.
