relationships & contentment
I’m a girl and I’m in a relationship with a guy. I’ve had a previous relationship (also with a guy) but I’ve felt now in both relationships that something is missing, I can’t put my finger on it. I love my current boyfriend as a person, but I don’t know if it’s romantic, how do I know? I’ve been thinking about whether I might have liked being with a girl more, but how do I know if I’ve never tried? I really don’t know what to do in this situation
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- someone who replied
It can be confusing! If you are having doubts you are having doubts. If you are not, you wouldn’t be in this situation so something isn’t working for you. You have to explore what and why it’s not. Doing nothing won’t change anything so I’d start by talking with him about it. See how he’s feeling too. Have you already?
- someone who replied
Think calmly
- someone who replied
I can relate a little because my wife told me she still cares about me but also cares about someone else now tho in my eyes we were exclusive. Sorry I have no advice to you but only say to talk to him. He needs to know too
- someone who replied, again
I agree, you need to have a conversation. Not fair for you to keep this inside from him, it won’t go away, it will only get harder to live with
