I’ve had a really overwhelming day. My girlfriend is struggling mentally and it’s affecting me a lot. I feel like everything is on my shoulders. I also have anxiety eating out, and it triggers her past issues. It happens every time we go out and I don’t know what to do.

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Honestly I think you should put yourself first for a change it’s okay to help others out especially a loved one but there’s only so much you as a person can take. Weigh the pros and cons of this relationship and  see if it’s really worth it . Like what are you getting out of the relationship is mostly hardships or unhappiness then why stay ? Or set boundaries for yourself

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I need help please :(

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I don’t know what to do I feel alone Idk what to do or how to deal with it. I’ve been like this for many years

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I’m getting tired of everything

I’ve had a really overwhelming day. My girlfriend is struggling mentally and it’s affecting me a lot. I feel like everything is on my shoulders. I also have anxiety eating out, and it triggers her past issues. It happens every time we go out and I don’t know what to do.

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