Ive never been able to keep a relationship going to a point of meeting the person in real I live in a tiny town so dating here is impossible. I have disabilities and find it hard to flirt and talk in the way I want and I dont know what todo anymore im trying and its not working some people have told me not online date and only Irl which seems illogical given my whereabouts what do I do? I dont have a car but can afford it once license
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- the person who asked
Also some people say if relationships aren't working your the problem but im always honest always nice but not too nice and I try to joke and user humor when I can even if im awful at it
- the person who asked
And im not overly clingy either so I dont know what im doing wrong
- someone who replied
Hum. How far away is the nearest larger town and how big is it? Ever used meetup.com? I find it’s a great way to connect in person with people who have similar interests
- the person who asked
Its 2-3 hours away or 1 hour to a different one that has likely nothing going on. Maybe that would help but I have no clue
- someone who replied, again
I don’t see the problem in trying them online dating. And I wouldn’t recommend only doing that. I’m a guy so take this advice from that side, but I always think the best place to talk to women is at the grocery store or target. Especially at night. Because then you can almost guarantee they’re not hanging out with their boyfriend lol
- someone who replied, again
I don’t know how severe your disability is, but it sounds like it impacts your speech, but I want you to say that don’t lose hope. Yes it might be hard for you to find somebody who loves you, it’s hard for everyone and disability can impact that. But the love you experience isn’t less or different. It can be rich or richer than those without disability because of what you’ve gone through to find love if you’ve overcome Obstacles others havent
