relationships & contentment
I let a guy sleep over who I wasn’t interested in. He came over for a little but then I pretended to be too high (edible) to hangout and that I needed to lay down. But he stayed and got in bed with me, while I was pretend sleeping he stuck his hands in my shirt and shorts. I pushed him away a few times then he held down my hand. I completely froze up, he ended up pulling off my shorts, holding my body down and going inside me without a condom.
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4 replies
- the person who asked
I have C-PTSD from previous sexual abuse early in my life, and have worked as a SW. I just feel like I didn’t do enough to tell him I wasn’t interested maybe because I felt like it didn’t matter.
- someone who replied
That doesn’t sound like you were consenting. I’m sorry you were put through that. Are you working with that SW again or do you interact with a mental health professional? I don’t have a lot of experience with sexual abuse but I know a few organizations in my area and at my university that do
- someone who replied
What a weak and despicable man. You don't have to keep this to yourself. How do you feel now?
- someone who replied
I am so sorry that happened. I hope you have the support you need. Feel free to reach out on here again, there are a lot of good listeners.
