long story short, this one guy likes me and i think he loves me but idk but he is suicidal and talks bad abput himself and his life and only thing that can make him happy and better is gf, and he told me if we dont end up together he will no lomger try with anyone else. we started flirting but i wasnt sure do i want him and im also talking with other guy and now i dont know who to choose, i feel responsible for the first guy
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- the person who asked
i want to make him happy but idk how i feel like of i start getting to know him more he will fall in love more but i also cant just dump him rn cause its my fault because i was flirting but didnt know what i want, and i also cant dump the other guy caise he is good hearted
- someone who replied
Thoughts?
- the person who asked
well im also rethinking the other guy, he is nice and all and he is showing his soft side a little, but he is reeally jelaous and i was joking that im going to the club (we are not together yet) and he was calling me but i didnt answer i only answered texts to he waa like ill beat you ill break your phone, and its not the first time he is sometimes joking that he will beat me if i do something wrong and then he says that its a joke
- the person who asked
and he is saying if i ever cheat on him he will beat up that guy
- someone who replied, again
Yeah that dude is trouble. Honey, protect yourself. The attention and validation you are getting from those guys is not worth your safety. You need someone who will love you and not be violent and you deserve that
- the person who asked
he is saying that its a joke but idk what he will look like when he gets really mad and im next to him, idk what to do. and he also said that he never liked someone like me befoe
- someone who replied, again
If you believe him about ‘I’ve never met someone like you before’ you also have to believe him When he saying ‘I’ll beat you’. You cannot pick which statements you believe, because either he is a compulsive liar on all counts or he actually telling you the truth both scenarios do not end well for you with that type of person
- the person who asked
what if he is joking about ill beat you and telling the truth about the first one, i mean its not impossible to be that way
- someone who replied, again
It’s a terrible thing to joke about. You should have to spend any time or energy worrying about that with your partner or friend. Ask them to stop. If they don’t you’ll know that for some reason violence is a legitimate part of their brain and assessment process. Don’t go down that road
