so this guy is really suicidal and talks bad about himself and we are not together but he is saying that he loves me and has a whole folder about thing i like, but one time i told him theres other guys im talking to and he wanted to off himself and i was calling him and crying and he was just silent an listening to me cry. the other time i also did something and he was saying he will do something and i was calling him and he was not answering but
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- the person who asked
he was online and he was saying i dont want to answer and whole night i was calling and he knew im worried. so im thinking is he manipulating me to care for him cause im really trying to help him but i feel like he is adding even more to my worries (i know i was talking to other guys but we are not together and im just trying to help him). what is he gonna be like in relationship, is he gonna manipulate so i never leave cause he will kill himself
- someone who replied
It’s hard to feel pain and only have a few people understand you. It’s common in your people and relationships to share pain together and it brings ppl together. Creates a strong bond this pain. And when interpersonal relationships get involved it can be messy. It’s ok to have these relationships and talk to him. And recognize threatening suicide is not a mature response
- someone who replied, again
relationships are hard to untangle each others emotions. All I can say is you are not responsible for his health and wellbeing and he is not responsible for yours.
