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im seeing this one guy and its been already months since we met and sometimes he jokes about beating me like he says ill beat ypu and then im joking dont worry im not an idiot. and one time we were cuddling and he put fingers on my nose and then mouth and said ill choke you and rape you and then he says im joking, but it only lasted few seconds. overall he is nice guy and seem good he never actually beat me or something idk what should i do
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- someone who replied
Sounds like this behavior makes you unsettled. And it should you are right for picking up on that. Is there something about him that makes you want to overlook the fear that this behavior is giving you?
- someone who replied, again
Have you told him How those jokes make you feel? If so what’s his reaction. If not how come?
- someone who replied
with internet culture today, he may have stumbled into some kink territory. or he could have acted that way with an ex.. u should communicate with him about how it upsets u
