Looking for some guidance regarding my teen daughter and i am single parent and struggle lot to understand her and explain her.. it will more helpful if any one connect and guide me
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- someone who replied·
One more what are some of the things that you’re struggling to connect with her about? Or what are you struggling to understand about her?
- someone who replied, again·
I’m a parent too, but not teenagers quite yet. raising a child is a challenge, especially when you’re doing it alone, so I understand some of the struggle.
- the person who asked·
Yes its difficult to explain
- someone who replied, again·
Oh goodness. What a challenge I have a 8 month old daughter and that scares me. Maybe I can learn something from you! Is she becoming or being sexually active? That have something to do with it?
- the person who asked·
She is becoming sexual active
- the person who asked·
Most of times she is asking about her Growth
- someone who replied, again·
How was this approached in your family? Do you feel like you had a good example of how to handle this with your parents?
- the person who asked·
No me from india we normal won't discuss about sexual with parents in my days. But now generation is different
- the person who asked·
Normal we have sexual with wife only. Mostly mother's will help daughter in puberty but as i am single wanted to guide her
- someone who replied, again·
Is there something you wish she knew or is there something you wish to say?
- the person who asked·
I feel she wants to know adult things
- someone who replied, again·
That’s hard to be in your shoes, to be the first one who is starting a new tradition, you didn’t have this type of experience growing up. So you’re being forced to figure something new out for your daughter.
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Yes correct
- someone who replied, again·
I feel like trusting your intuition is always the best way to go. So if you are getting the inclination that she wants to know more and you should talk to her, I think that’s probably correct. Are you afraid of that for some reason? that you will mess something up?
- the person who asked·
Yes few things if i say some thing and she understand different it will be hard and some how she wants me see her body. I hope u got it
- someone who replied, again·
I think you should. She will feel worse feeling rejected. Maybe it feels improper or indecent but you can do it without bad or unclean intention. You can still guide her
- someone who replied, again·
I apologize if that was forward or presumptuous of me.
- the person who asked·
Hi i don't have bad intentions
- someone who replied, again·
Yes of course. Which is why I think you can proceed and guide her without it being immoral or unclean. But I am of a different culture who likely doesn’t understand your traditions so take it for whatever it is worth to you.
- someone who replied·
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