how do I learn to let others love me
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- someone who replied
Do you think you are worthy of love?
- the person who asked
I’m not entirely sure how I feel about this. I would say probably not
- someone who replied, again
Maybe try starting there? How come?
- the person who asked
I feel unimportant, or insignificant
- someone who replied, again
Is that because that is what other people are telling you to feel or how others are making you feel? Like you don't matter?
- the person who asked
I think it probably just have to do with me feeling neglected. I feel like I’m giving my all to keep in contact with people and further our relationships. But they’re giving me the bare minimum, or nothing at all.
- someone who replied, again
Hum. Probably hard to see. But it does tell you something valuable, maybe that energy and attention need not be spent from your side. Could be a sign to try focusing on new relationships. Realize that a tough realization and to let go. Very challenging but in the long run beneficial
- the person who asked
I feel as if I knew this but it helped to hear it from somebody else. This was surprisingly helpful. Thank you.
